Happy New Year!

Happy new year everyone, I hope that the coming year will see both you and I fulfilling some amazing sexual fantasies in this kinky journey we call life.

As a little new years gift to you all my sister blog (a running storyline of chastity cuckold caption pictures of my own creation) will now be posting daily!! 🙂

Enjoy

Alastair

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Sex toy review: (Easy In Anal Dilators – www.uberkinky.co.uk)

If BBC Radio 4 had a show called “desert island sex toys” then right after a chastity device these would be my next choice from our toybox. They are a wonderful set of anal dilators and have been used countless times to great effect punishing and stretching out my ass hole. Can’t remember where I bought mine from but you now find them here at http://www.Uberkinky.co.uk

They differ from butt plugs as they have no narrowing near their ends, just a slightly wider head and a wide ring around the bottom to prevent them disappearing. This means that while they are inserted it is not the sensation of having something big inside you but the feeling of your hole being constantly kept wide open that you notice. As they leap up in size your anus is stretched to an eye watering 45mm In diameter and unlike a plug which merely stretches you on the way in this keeps you that wide open for as long as your Mistress desires.

The only draw back of these dilators is it is impossible to keep them in with your muscles alone, as you clench to keep it in all you do is push it out as there is no narrow section to hold on to. In my case I tie the dilators in with rope so I can wear them for hours at a time but equally this issue can be turned around by your Mistress and can be the source of a fantastic punishment game, i.e. 10 stripes with the cane for every time it falls out or to go up to the next size dilator for example. I have also found that due to small hole in the top (to let air out as you push them in) it is a good idea if you are wearing for them for a while to push a little tissue paper up inside to stop lube constantly dribbling out of you. Then when you are done just throw them all in the steriliser or dishwasher and you’re done 🙂

So in conclusion

If you are looking for a great anal training technique to push your limits and really widen out your ass then look no further than these. They are great to use, easy to clean and even have a little hole so that (if no condoms are used) you don’t end up pushing tonnes of air inside you.

The only drawback I see is they are hard to hold in but as long as use rope then this really is no big deal

Mark out of ten: 10/10 (amazing toys)

Alastair

xx

Early Christmas Package

Hello all, its Christmas eve and I just wanted to give you all a little early present, you can now follow my sister blog, which comprises of a regular Chastity Cuckold Caption picture of my own creation 🙂

There is a running story (which is entirely fictional so don’t try to make links lol) and if you are like me and love cuckold captions I hope that these will hit the spot

ChastityCuckoldCaptions.wordpress.com

Merry Christmas!

Alastair

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Sex toy Review: CB3000/CB6000 (www.chastityplay.co.uk)

I guess I have to do this review at some point lol. . . . . . . . . . . . .the CB3000 is the chastity cage I am currently using, many because out of the devices I own it’s the only one that I can use with the ‘Points Of Intrigue’. It is a bit damaged through use and to be honest I will be very glad to see the back of it but saying that it has served me well. The reason I am also lumping the CB6000 into this review even though I don’t own one is that I can confidently say (as I have played around with one) That it is simply a slightly improved version of the CB3000, fixing some but by no means all of its issues.

For those that have never seen one the CB3000/6000 (CB3000 pictured) is a plastic cage which comes in a variety of colours, a variety of lengths, with a variety of spacers and a varity of ring sizes as well as numerous accessories which makes it by far the most versatile device on the market. Versatility is important because as everyone knows all men’s cock and balls are different so for a device to comfortably and securely deny access it must fit as many different sizes and shapes as possible to make sure if YOU buy one it will work. The only way to get a better fit than a CB3000/6000 is if you have a bespoke one made for you from somewhere like the German company Steelworxx but that will start to get pretty pricey. The other thing to remember is that if you want a well fitting device you need some sort of benchmark so even if you do have the cash to go bespoke you really need to have something like a CB3000/6000  to base your measurements on (i.e. you need to know it needs to be an inch shorter and a ring size of 47mm for it not to rub around the bottom of your balls etc)

If you are buying one today then get the CB6000, if you already have a undamaged CB3000 then don’t bother investing in a CB6000 because to be honest the difference isn’t worth it. It has improved how resistant it is to splitting in half, the CB3000 has a tendency to burst it’s seam but as the CB6000 has its seam running in the other plane then this is less likely. The biggest difference is the way the ring works, having a hinged ring can cause pinching for some guys (not something I have had trouble with since I have always kept fully shaved) or a solid ring which is hard to get over the cock and balls. So there is now a clever two part ring system which get round this issue, it still comes with all the different sizes and you can still have any combination of spacers you like.

As I have said before my biggest problems are pinching, rubbing and ‘pull-out’, the rubbing is what usually makes be have to come out, I don’t know if it is because I am circumcised so have less protecting my head but the plastic certainly does make me sore and tender. As far as ‘pull-out’ goes, because my cock is pretty small and I have a relatively loose scrotum I find it easy enough to just pull my cock out of the back when flaccid (I use the points to reduce this). The only way to fully prevent this would be to get a Prince Albert piercing which can be locked into the end of the tube so no pull out is possible, this is very much on my ‘to be done asap’ list 🙂

So in conclusion:

If you are looking for a great first time effective chastity device then go online and just order a CB6000, it is worth the money, and you have by far the best chance of getting a good fit. Most other devices need you to order various sizes before you have tried it on, whereas with this you get every size going.

Even if you find it is not for you, you will know exactly why you don’t like it and you will be armed with the best information possible when trying to find your perfect device, in my opinion that still makes it worth the expense if you are serious about this fetish.

Biggest disadvantage is that it is not as secure as you want and it is not suitable for some guys for really long term wear.

Mark out of ten:   9/10  (Not for its overall performance but for its versatility and role it plays in your journey into chastity)

That warm feeling again

So the past month has been hard for the whole Chastity Cuckold game, long story short it all became too much far sooner than either me or Lexy would have liked, so I came out and was aloud to cum. As always it was a big downer to be released, it is never a ‘good’ or ‘releaving’ feeling, it is more like the mourning of the lost of a family pet lol, you know it is by far from being an actual big deal in the context of world events but you still can’t help feeling a little lost.

For all that want the long version it all came down to the usual spiral of Lexy feeling like like she was letting me down, me getting major guilt that I was stressing me out, her feeling like the chastity was making me feel worse not better because she wasn’t doing right and then me going to pieces because no matter what I said or did it seemed to make it worse. I need to find a way to stop the chastity part of our lives becoming so all consuming for me, it can get to the point where it is all I talk about and that is not what we are aiming for at all, it needs to be part of our life not all of it!

So what happens next, well for me it is a quick reversion to masturbating at any given moment and me turning back into a cave-man slob! No-no its true, all the house work that I genuinely take pride in and enjoy when locked up becomes a stupid chore I could do without. I start to hate my ‘submissive’ alter ego as someone who is constantly asking far too much of Lexy and thereby risking our future together for my stupid dirty fetishes and as long as keep wanking like a 14 year old i.e. my average of 5 times a day then that’s where my head stays. So when the bag of Lexy’s underwear waiting for me to hand wash is getting full, the kitchen is being lost from sight and she is starting to miss the overly romantic, sensitive, touchy-feely, worshipping ‘me’ she starts to cut down on my orgasms as much as she can to get my head back into ‘sub-mode’.

This goes on until, like 4 days ago, Lexy gets me back under lock and key 🙂 and I can’t explain what I felt better than another chastity lifestyle blogger did, this is from a recent DenyingThumper post and I cannot agree with it more:-

“There, that’s more like it. That’s how you should be.”

She placed her hand on the package, but I only felt her fingers on my balls.

In my chest, I felt a wave of emotions. Regret that access to the penis was gone, relief that it wouldn’t be a distraction anymore. Satisfaction that my status was no longer in doubt (had she forgotten about me? did she have plans for it?). But mostly just a warm blanket of love and affection for the woman who kept me this way. I sank quickly and deeply into the comfortable fuzziness of my submission.

“Thank you.”

As always it felt fantastic, it filled my brain with ‘happy’ and as always, like a idiot, I let it take over everything and before you know it Lexy is getting stressed over trying to meet up to the expectations. We are both perfectionists, we both hate doing any less than a perfect job and when there are extra stresses around us then this chastity thing just seems an impossibility. As I write this I am back into that head space of genuinely wanting to smash my stupid cage into a thousand bits so it can never tempt me again and locking all the other kink paraphernalia in the loft away from sight. The one silver lining was the way Lexy brought me out, I was owed 165 with the cane and don’t ask me where she found the will to do it given how stressed we were but she did it.

L:  “GO PUT IN THE MIDDLE BUTT PLUG” (we have a great set of anal dilators which I will review at some point)

A:  “Yes Mistress”, I hurried off, cleaned myself out, inserted the third plug with a little difficulty and tied it in with rope (which you have to do with the dilators as they have no narrow part). On my return Lexy was ready with her cane in her hand, she had slipped on a beautiful chocolate coloured camisole and our 8 inch chocolate coloured strap-on to match 🙂

L:  “HEAD!”, I bowed my head and Lexy took a leather gag out of the box and secured it in place around my head, “FACE DOWN!”. I did as instructed  and lay on the bed face down with my arse in the air. The cane strokes came thick and fast, it was always going to be a big ask for me as I don’t tend to take pain well but as the strokes kept on coming only a few thankfully were enough to make my adrenalin spike. Once it was over Lexy stroked my warm red cheeks with her hand to comfort me. “On all fours and you can have your treat for being a good slave and taking your punishment” I gladly did as I was told and moaned as she untied the rope, removed the plug and pushed her beautiful big rubber cock into my well stretched hole.

Lexy fucked my ass hole hard and stroked my begging cock closer and closer to cumming, she laid on her back and I eagerly mounted her, as Lexy pressed her vibe against her clit she told me to cum when she did, I needed no other help other than the dildo in my ass for stimulation and as soon as she came so did I, covering her chest and camisole with my cum, it was a good climax, I came hard and it was certainly a lot more pleasurable than just being realised from chastity and us getting on with our day annoyed with ourselves lol.

So where are we now? same place I was 5 days ago . . . . . . . . . we’ll just have to talk tonight and see where we go from here.

Alastair

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Not Getting The Point (incl. Sex Toy Review of ‘The Points Of Intrigue’)

You know when you just lose something and it must just get sucked into a black hole under the bed because no matter how hard you look you cannot find it?, my ‘Points Of Intrigue’ (POI) have gone this way, they just vanished. For those of you you who have never seem them the POI are an accessory for the popular CB2000/3000/curve chastity cages, they come in three sizes (you get all three when you buy them) and they fit in in between the ring and the tube, they are simple but very very effective. Just imagine that whenever you get even the slightest thought in your head about sex or kink or anything that even remotely turns you on it feels like your cock is being cut off from the pain the points give you as they dig into your swelling penis.

For me these POI are a huge help for me staying locked up for longer, not only do they help keep the cage on they also keep my run-away-horniness under control. A big part of chastity for me is the idea of being trained to focus on more important things than my desires, I love being punished for not focusing on Lexy’s needs, being told over and over that what my tiny cock wants doesn’t matter any more and that the POI will remind me of that. The effect of them while serving Lexy I find quite strange in fact, for example when I am told to go down on her the blood rushes to my cock, I moan as the points dig in hard and as I work slowly down her body I need to consciously hold back the screams. But if I focus,  if I concentrate on exactly what my tongue is doing, think about how fast I am doing it, think about exactly what she likes, try to read her every moan and twitch to give her the best experience. If I do that and I am completely focused on pleasuring HER with my tongue and fingers etc. my erections subsides, as does the pain, . . . . as long as I stay focused lol

For further punishment the following trick can be used, thankfully I have not misbehaved enough to suffer it yet but I have spoken to Mistress’s who have done it:- The Mistress/Keyholder tells the Slave/Cuck that they are in for a treat, at the end of the week they are to be taken to a lap dancing bar, they will watch girls giving dances to their Mistress and will even get several dances of their own, by beautiful naked women. . . . . . . but if they misbehave just once in that week then they will be going with the first set of points in, misbehave twice the second set and misbehave three times and its the biggest points driving into their cock as they can’t control it from hardening.. . . . . . . . love the thought of dancers knowing why the sub is crying with pain and enjoying the experience of dominating someone just with their sexual allure.

So I am very glad to have my new set, it was an Ebay purchase as they are a little hard to find now as people are more concerned with the new CB6000, but if you want to find some there’s plenty still out there. Through experience and the fact that my cock is pretty small I can use the largest of the POI and if it wasn’t for a little pinching I could wear them 24/7, they are a wonderful and constant reminder of my submission and chastity so I would urge anyone who is into chastity and CBT to order some now! 🙂

So in conclusion:

If you are looking for an accessory to your CB3000/2000 to help prevent ‘pull-out’ and your keyholder wants you to be punished for every wayward thought running through your head then these are perfect. They are very intense to begin with so don’t expect to be able to stay in them for long first time but with practice you can work through them

Biggest disadvantage is that depending on which ring size you use there can be pinching, which in many ways is worse than the points themselves as it can be constant.

Mark out of ten:   8/10  (They are savage but work)

Oh To Be A Cuck!

Every single time without fail when Lexy whispers in my ear that I may satisfy her as her friend, her loving partner in life supporting her, listening to her, doing everything she could ever want from her man . . . except for one thing . . . . . . that my cock isn’t long enough, thick enough, hard enough and certainly not dependable enough my heart races, my cock tries to swell in its cage and I moan like a little slut. Just the thought of her dating other guys throughout our lives to satisfy her in ways I can’t is just the biggest turn on ever!! Now technically this doesn’t make me a cuckold, it makes me a wittol, because a cuckold is unaware of his partner’s infidelity whereas as a wittol is excited by it. ‘Wittol’ is now a virtually unknown word so the more widely understood word ‘cuckold’ is far better! Sounds better too I think, responding to Lexy calling for “Cuck, Cuck, here Cuck” in a supermarket 🙂

Many a night I lay in my bed thinking of Lexy’s beautiful pussy, warm, wet, hair free and soft. I want it, I crave it, it feels so so good squeezing around one’s cock, its so good in fact that without deep concentration I cum within seconds of entering her. Like many things in life the desire is heightened still further when you are denied it, and in this case even more so when someone else is getting it instead of you. Just the thought another man being allowed to fuck Lexy’s cunt with his hard cock when I am not even permitted to see it is overwhelming, her lips being spread open by another, enjoying his manhood so so much more than mine as it makes her cum so much harder than mine could.

Further to the fact of being cuckolded the fact that Lexy’s lovers will know that they are doing what I am not allowed, that I am so useless in bed that I am locked up and she gets her rocks off with them instead. It is very powerful dominance, the act of emasculating the submissive completely, showing how worthless his sexual prowess is, how lower than other men he is, and to tell other men that he will meet that he is useless in bed . . .well. . that is as psychologically dominant as you can be in my opinion.

Although we have not acted out this wonderfully emasculating act Lexy has been doing another very powerful thing, humiliating me in front of her best friend. We met up with her in Starbucks down south this weekend, I had been sent on a shopping erend to get, among over things, a cute baby pink tutu from Ann Summers that we had seen, Lexy likes me to have to buy these things, she is building me up to trying them on in the shops so the staff know exactly who they are for. When I returned to the coffee shop it was obvious that I had been a topic of conversation, her keys were out of her top for all to see and the smile on both their faces as I walked in left me in no doubt that she knew everything!! I loved it, I loved how this beautiful woman knew details of how I was being dominated, that my tiny cock was under lock and key and even better than that when she was shown the tutu she asked Lexy for pictures of me wearing it. OMG what a fucking turn on, knowing that when I am told to wear it the camera will be out and she will be laughing her ass off at me!

Alastair

xx

One Failure After Another

This is one of those posts I hope not to have to write too often. If you read ‘Sex Toy Review: Real-Skin Penis Extension‘ you will know that my orgasm denial came to a horrible end the second time we tried using our new sleeve. Though I am sure my orgasm was ruined as I tried to stop it, but it still significantly broke my submission and left me broken with it. I really am getting to the point where I honestly hate cumming, you may find it hard to believe but all I want is to last longer, I struggle so much with it that my only goal is to stop myself from climaxing so I can enjoy the sexual experience. I don’t get that warm afterglow that Lexy and most other people (male or female) get after orgasm, I feel deflated, somehow emptied of all that excitement and the orgasm is never strong enough to make up for that lack of that. I have a ‘sad ending’ rather than a ‘happy ending’ you might say. This is made so so much worse if I have cum sooner than I wanted to, before making Lexy cum as many times as I wanted for example, then I feel so fucking angry with myself, just want to take myself outside knock some sense into myself, just so useless.

This first failure was compounded just a few days later with something that completely knocked me for six, something that I have never in my life experienced before, mainly due to the amount I have always masturbated, A WET DREAM!! All I know is that I woke up, At about 3am in a pool of my cum, I was locked up (without points though) so I had not wanked in my sleep I had just got so horny in my dream that I climaxed. I felt sick, I felt robbed, I felt useless, pitiful, a failure, I lay there crying until eventually Lexy woke up and told her what had happened. I knew she would comfort me given how upset this had got me, I hated not feeling submissive, Lexy was amazing as always and calmed me down, refused to unlock me and we talked until about 5:30 about what had happened and how we move on from there.

So where do we move on to? I know how hard Lexy finds this way of life sometimes, denying me from sex with her, denying me even one orgasm and on top of that verbally abusing me and my cock for not being enough for her. Lexy reassures me that this is not her real opinion, that she is happy with my cock and the orgasms it gives her, but to me I don’t measure up to what I should be, what she deserves and that often leaves me sad and frustrated.  The only thing that keeps her going and so determined to make this work for us, apart from how wonderfully stubborn she is lol, is that she can see how much denial gives me, how turned on the verbal and physical degradation gets me, how calm it can make me, how relaxed and close it can make us.

This certainly has been a very low point and it is only Lexy’s determination that stops me demanding that we forget my kinks entirely and lock them up in my brain, never mention them and stop them causing so much damage. There are so so many times I wish I didn’t have these desires, if someone said they could zap them out of brain half the time I would say yes in a heartbeat but Lexy assures me that I wouldn’t be ‘me’ without them and it is ‘me’ she loves! I can’t honestly see why without all this shit she would love me let alone with all these added problems to deal with, I can only say how fucking grateful I am that she does!

Alastair

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A Sexy Lesson Learnt

I don’t know whether it was the amazing night before with the new penis extension sleeve (anyone who read ‘Sex Toy Review: Real-Skin Penis Extension’ will gather this was after that first night) making Lexy feeling especially good about the whole ‘chastity play in relationship’ but before we went out for dinner this evening she really took the initiative. In one of our many feedback sessions I had talked about my want for ‘Mistress Lexy’ to be far harsher to me verbally, my want for her to be constantly angry and disgusted with me, treating me like shit and swearing at me at every opportunity. As detailed in a previous post (Background and Goals) my love of degradation leads me to desire, for what most people would have well outside their comfort zone, such as my ‘pseudo-hardsports’, watersports, dirty ass hole cleaning, toilet licking etc. One of my daily tasks was to clean the oven hob, this I had done and crossed off my list but had been a bit lax with the front of the oven, I had not cleaned the small lip that ran along the front, just above the controls – something I would live to regret!!

L: “SLAVE!!!! What the FUCK is this!!!!”, I ran to her and quickly got on my knees, “YOU have crossed off cleaning this oven!!!!”

A: “Yes Mistress”, Lexy ran her finger all the way down the lip, gathering up every bit of grease, food, cleaning product, dust etc and brought it in front of my face to see!

L: ” DOES THIS LOOK FUCKING CLEAN!?!?!”

A: “No Mistress”, then without a moments hesitation in her voice. . . . . .

L: “LICK IT CLEAN!!!”, I froze, it was disgusting, really really disgusting, she grabbed my hair and repeated the order “LICK . . . IT. . . .CLEAN!!!!!”. I had no choice, she was serious, I licked her finger clean of every bit, I struggled to keep it down, it was hideous. Mistress marched back to the oven and to my horror proceeded to take another finger full, making sure she got all the dirt I had missed. Back she came, this time I knew what was coming and my stomach turned at the thought of more. “LICK!!!”, as quickly as I could I cleaned and swallowed every bit then sat on the floor praying for no more.

The best part of this little session was just how unexpected it was, I love how Lexy will take something I have done wrong to push my degradation. Another favourite of mine was one time I had served her dinner which included a salad. I was shouted at for putting too much dressing on the salad so when she had finished and scraped her leftovers into my bowl to eat at her feet she paused and said “We’ll see how you like your salad over dressed!” Then, she stood up, pulled down her panties from under her skirt, opened her legs, held my bowl between them and pissed all over my food, not just a little, streams of it so my food was swimming in her pee. Placing it back on the floor, my head was pushed down into the bowl to eat and drink every bit while she ate her desert. It was magical, so disgusting the combination of her leftovers and her warm piss, but so so wonderfully degrading.

On a hopeful and similar tactic, I make sure on occasion that there is no toilet paper in Lexy’s bathroom, my hope against hope, is that this will lead to a nice treat of licking her beautiful ass hole clean. Naughty to try for this I know, but that’s all part of the fun 😉

So my lesson learnt, I am certainly not going to miss any of that oven next time, believe me!! 🙂

Alastair

xx

Sex Toy Review: Real-Skin Penis Extension (from www.Bondara.co.uk)

As mentioned in my last post we have just bought a ‘Real-Skin Penis Extension’ from Bondara. It arrived yesterday and we couldn’t wait to try it out, so a quiet evening in with candles, music and no child was arranged 😉 . The biggest hurdle to us integrating chastity play into our life long term is not losing the intimate love making at the heart of our relationship. The fantasy of being Mistress/slave 24/7 365 is just not possible in my humble opinion, not unless it is not the Mistress’s primary relationship (I’ll talk about various D/S polyamorous relationships in a later post). To keep our real relationship as good as it is, we still need to be able to make love, its not just ‘cock-lust’, Lexy could get that elsewhere, its that connection, the two of us together.

I do however find ‘normal sex’ very difficult a lot of the time, I spend most of it engaging in a constant battle in my head between distracting myself away from the experience so as not to cum and staying just horny enough to stay as hard as I can for Lexy. I’m constantly annoyed with myself, wishing I could be bigger, harder and last longer more easily so could actually just enjoy the sex. Believe it or not, I get far more pleasure out of making someone else cum (guy or girl) than I do from cumming myself. Don’t get me wrong, cumming is a great end to a session/evening but the feeling I get from feeling someone cum from what I am doing to them, whether that be fingering them, fucking them or sucking their cock makes me feel a hundred feet tall, top of the world, just really good about being me. . . . .

So.. on with the review, this is one of those toys that has the potential to be everything I need, its realistic feel, makes me longer, wider and should really dull the sensation. Getting it out of the box I was very pleased to see how thick the walls were, the material had a really good feel to it, very stretchy and I imagined it would heat up to body temp quickly inside Lexy. Getting it on would be the trick, any air trapped in the end would certainly cause a noticeable empty pocket beneath its lovely thick head. Rolling it on like a condom would be the answer but one must be very careful, for best results the inside must be completely lube free so as not the rub and stimulate the cock, but to be able to roll the sleeve on the out side really did need to be lubed. With that hurdle passed the next became obvious, the sleeve allowed 6 inchs of room for the penis, which meant I still had some still rolled up at the bottom. Not wanting to damage the toy before trying we gave it a go anyway.

First attempt (like most things in the real world) was certainly not perfect, I started out on top but I could tell my desire for this toy to be great wasn’t helping the pressure on Lexy to cum. The fact is since I ordered this toy I have been day dreaming about us using it and Lexy declaring that it was the best sex she had ever had and that she never wanted my pathetic cock un-extended near her cunt ever again. With that thought running round my head I was certainly hard enough for her and although the words never came she eventually did.

We re-grouped and tried to work out how to improve, Lexy felt that the biggest problem was the soft gap between the end of my cock and the fake head, other than doing better at putting it on there was nothing to be done about that. The only thing left was to cut the sleeve at the bottom to fit, hopefully to let Lexy get all the way to the bottom and be able to grind much better. So without further ado I cut an inch off the bottom, another fitting and another half inch removed, leaving 4 1/2 inches, perfect for me.

Lets just say it worked 🙂 we fucked for longer than I think we ever have and I had the amazing pleasure of watching Lexy riding my cock to 4 more amazing climaxes!! For love making it was perfect, really perfect, I could feel everything but dulled enough to be able to just enjoy the sex, I’d never felt soooo good in bed.

The next night had a very different outcome, again we were being ‘us’ and we began making love with me on top I brought Lexy to a beautiful first orgasm. We changed position so I could watch my lovely big cock sliding in and out of her soaking wet cunt, Lexy laid down and I kept grinding my cock into her. All of a sudden, she sweezed my cock hard and I was sent hurtling towards orgasm, I tried to stop but it was too late, I squirted my load into the sleeve, two weeks of built up cum filling the end. I was devastated, so so fucking annoyed with myself, I just wanted to crawl under the duvet and cry. We guess it must be the position, whatever it was it was clear that this toy could be amazing for us, Lexy said that hand on heart she preferred the feel of being fucked with the sleeve over my cock, but we would need to work on just how best to use it.

So in conclusion:

If you are looking for an in-character D/S chastity toy this isn’t it, you’d be far better with a hollow strap-on that gives the sub no feeling at all, you still need to be making yourself hold back from cumming, it just makes it a whole lot easier. This toy is perfect for giving you the confidence and extra size to enjoy sex to its fullest, fucking someone realistically with the cock you’ve always wanted and certainly gave me some of the very best sex I have ever had and with practice I hope it will really work long term.

It can be easily shortened if you are shorter than 6 inches with scissors without damaging it and so far in general it seems nice and robust.

Biggest disadvantage is that it is difficult to prevent there being a soft spot between the tip of your cock and the bottom of the fake head.

Mark out of ten:   8.5/10  (it really hits all the spots when you get it right)

Alastair

xx