Sex toy review: (Easy In Anal Dilators – www.uberkinky.co.uk)

If BBC Radio 4 had a show called “desert island sex toys” then right after a chastity device these would be my next choice from our toybox. They are a wonderful set of anal dilators and have been used countless times to great effect punishing and stretching out my ass hole. Can’t remember where I bought mine from but you now find them here at http://www.Uberkinky.co.uk

They differ from butt plugs as they have no narrowing near their ends, just a slightly wider head and a wide ring around the bottom to prevent them disappearing. This means that while they are inserted it is not the sensation of having something big inside you but the feeling of your hole being constantly kept wide open that you notice. As they leap up in size your anus is stretched to an eye watering 45mm In diameter and unlike a plug which merely stretches you on the way in this keeps you that wide open for as long as your Mistress desires.

The only draw back of these dilators is it is impossible to keep them in with your muscles alone, as you clench to keep it in all you do is push it out as there is no narrow section to hold on to. In my case I tie the dilators in with rope so I can wear them for hours at a time but equally this issue can be turned around by your Mistress and can be the source of a fantastic punishment game, i.e. 10 stripes with the cane for every time it falls out or to go up to the next size dilator for example. I have also found that due to small hole in the top (to let air out as you push them in) it is a good idea if you are wearing for them for a while to push a little tissue paper up inside to stop lube constantly dribbling out of you. Then when you are done just throw them all in the steriliser or dishwasher and you’re done 🙂

So in conclusion

If you are looking for a great anal training technique to push your limits and really widen out your ass then look no further than these. They are great to use, easy to clean and even have a little hole so that (if no condoms are used) you don’t end up pushing tonnes of air inside you.

The only drawback I see is they are hard to hold in but as long as use rope then this really is no big deal

Mark out of ten: 10/10 (amazing toys)

Alastair

xx

Early Christmas Package

Hello all, its Christmas eve and I just wanted to give you all a little early present, you can now follow my sister blog, which comprises of a regular Chastity Cuckold Caption picture of my own creation 🙂

There is a running story (which is entirely fictional so don’t try to make links lol) and if you are like me and love cuckold captions I hope that these will hit the spot

ChastityCuckoldCaptions.wordpress.com

Merry Christmas!

Alastair

xx

Sex toy Review: CB3000/CB6000 (www.chastityplay.co.uk)

I guess I have to do this review at some point lol. . . . . . . . . . . . .the CB3000 is the chastity cage I am currently using, many because out of the devices I own it’s the only one that I can use with the ‘Points Of Intrigue’. It is a bit damaged through use and to be honest I will be very glad to see the back of it but saying that it has served me well. The reason I am also lumping the CB6000 into this review even though I don’t own one is that I can confidently say (as I have played around with one) That it is simply a slightly improved version of the CB3000, fixing some but by no means all of its issues.

For those that have never seen one the CB3000/6000 (CB3000 pictured) is a plastic cage which comes in a variety of colours, a variety of lengths, with a variety of spacers and a varity of ring sizes as well as numerous accessories which makes it by far the most versatile device on the market. Versatility is important because as everyone knows all men’s cock and balls are different so for a device to comfortably and securely deny access it must fit as many different sizes and shapes as possible to make sure if YOU buy one it will work. The only way to get a better fit than a CB3000/6000 is if you have a bespoke one made for you from somewhere like the German company Steelworxx but that will start to get pretty pricey. The other thing to remember is that if you want a well fitting device you need some sort of benchmark so even if you do have the cash to go bespoke you really need to have something like a CB3000/6000  to base your measurements on (i.e. you need to know it needs to be an inch shorter and a ring size of 47mm for it not to rub around the bottom of your balls etc)

If you are buying one today then get the CB6000, if you already have a undamaged CB3000 then don’t bother investing in a CB6000 because to be honest the difference isn’t worth it. It has improved how resistant it is to splitting in half, the CB3000 has a tendency to burst it’s seam but as the CB6000 has its seam running in the other plane then this is less likely. The biggest difference is the way the ring works, having a hinged ring can cause pinching for some guys (not something I have had trouble with since I have always kept fully shaved) or a solid ring which is hard to get over the cock and balls. So there is now a clever two part ring system which get round this issue, it still comes with all the different sizes and you can still have any combination of spacers you like.

As I have said before my biggest problems are pinching, rubbing and ‘pull-out’, the rubbing is what usually makes be have to come out, I don’t know if it is because I am circumcised so have less protecting my head but the plastic certainly does make me sore and tender. As far as ‘pull-out’ goes, because my cock is pretty small and I have a relatively loose scrotum I find it easy enough to just pull my cock out of the back when flaccid (I use the points to reduce this). The only way to fully prevent this would be to get a Prince Albert piercing which can be locked into the end of the tube so no pull out is possible, this is very much on my ‘to be done asap’ list 🙂

So in conclusion:

If you are looking for a great first time effective chastity device then go online and just order a CB6000, it is worth the money, and you have by far the best chance of getting a good fit. Most other devices need you to order various sizes before you have tried it on, whereas with this you get every size going.

Even if you find it is not for you, you will know exactly why you don’t like it and you will be armed with the best information possible when trying to find your perfect device, in my opinion that still makes it worth the expense if you are serious about this fetish.

Biggest disadvantage is that it is not as secure as you want and it is not suitable for some guys for really long term wear.

Mark out of ten:   9/10  (Not for its overall performance but for its versatility and role it plays in your journey into chastity)

That warm feeling again

So the past month has been hard for the whole Chastity Cuckold game, long story short it all became too much far sooner than either me or Lexy would have liked, so I came out and was aloud to cum. As always it was a big downer to be released, it is never a ‘good’ or ‘releaving’ feeling, it is more like the mourning of the lost of a family pet lol, you know it is by far from being an actual big deal in the context of world events but you still can’t help feeling a little lost.

For all that want the long version it all came down to the usual spiral of Lexy feeling like like she was letting me down, me getting major guilt that I was stressing me out, her feeling like the chastity was making me feel worse not better because she wasn’t doing right and then me going to pieces because no matter what I said or did it seemed to make it worse. I need to find a way to stop the chastity part of our lives becoming so all consuming for me, it can get to the point where it is all I talk about and that is not what we are aiming for at all, it needs to be part of our life not all of it!

So what happens next, well for me it is a quick reversion to masturbating at any given moment and me turning back into a cave-man slob! No-no its true, all the house work that I genuinely take pride in and enjoy when locked up becomes a stupid chore I could do without. I start to hate my ‘submissive’ alter ego as someone who is constantly asking far too much of Lexy and thereby risking our future together for my stupid dirty fetishes and as long as keep wanking like a 14 year old i.e. my average of 5 times a day then that’s where my head stays. So when the bag of Lexy’s underwear waiting for me to hand wash is getting full, the kitchen is being lost from sight and she is starting to miss the overly romantic, sensitive, touchy-feely, worshipping ‘me’ she starts to cut down on my orgasms as much as she can to get my head back into ‘sub-mode’.

This goes on until, like 4 days ago, Lexy gets me back under lock and key 🙂 and I can’t explain what I felt better than another chastity lifestyle blogger did, this is from a recent DenyingThumper post and I cannot agree with it more:-

“There, that’s more like it. That’s how you should be.”

She placed her hand on the package, but I only felt her fingers on my balls.

In my chest, I felt a wave of emotions. Regret that access to the penis was gone, relief that it wouldn’t be a distraction anymore. Satisfaction that my status was no longer in doubt (had she forgotten about me? did she have plans for it?). But mostly just a warm blanket of love and affection for the woman who kept me this way. I sank quickly and deeply into the comfortable fuzziness of my submission.

“Thank you.”

As always it felt fantastic, it filled my brain with ‘happy’ and as always, like a idiot, I let it take over everything and before you know it Lexy is getting stressed over trying to meet up to the expectations. We are both perfectionists, we both hate doing any less than a perfect job and when there are extra stresses around us then this chastity thing just seems an impossibility. As I write this I am back into that head space of genuinely wanting to smash my stupid cage into a thousand bits so it can never tempt me again and locking all the other kink paraphernalia in the loft away from sight. The one silver lining was the way Lexy brought me out, I was owed 165 with the cane and don’t ask me where she found the will to do it given how stressed we were but she did it.

L:  “GO PUT IN THE MIDDLE BUTT PLUG” (we have a great set of anal dilators which I will review at some point)

A:  “Yes Mistress”, I hurried off, cleaned myself out, inserted the third plug with a little difficulty and tied it in with rope (which you have to do with the dilators as they have no narrow part). On my return Lexy was ready with her cane in her hand, she had slipped on a beautiful chocolate coloured camisole and our 8 inch chocolate coloured strap-on to match 🙂

L:  “HEAD!”, I bowed my head and Lexy took a leather gag out of the box and secured it in place around my head, “FACE DOWN!”. I did as instructed  and lay on the bed face down with my arse in the air. The cane strokes came thick and fast, it was always going to be a big ask for me as I don’t tend to take pain well but as the strokes kept on coming only a few thankfully were enough to make my adrenalin spike. Once it was over Lexy stroked my warm red cheeks with her hand to comfort me. “On all fours and you can have your treat for being a good slave and taking your punishment” I gladly did as I was told and moaned as she untied the rope, removed the plug and pushed her beautiful big rubber cock into my well stretched hole.

Lexy fucked my ass hole hard and stroked my begging cock closer and closer to cumming, she laid on her back and I eagerly mounted her, as Lexy pressed her vibe against her clit she told me to cum when she did, I needed no other help other than the dildo in my ass for stimulation and as soon as she came so did I, covering her chest and camisole with my cum, it was a good climax, I came hard and it was certainly a lot more pleasurable than just being realised from chastity and us getting on with our day annoyed with ourselves lol.

So where are we now? same place I was 5 days ago . . . . . . . . . we’ll just have to talk tonight and see where we go from here.

Alastair

xx

Not Getting The Point (incl. Sex Toy Review of ‘The Points Of Intrigue’)

You know when you just lose something and it must just get sucked into a black hole under the bed because no matter how hard you look you cannot find it?, my ‘Points Of Intrigue’ (POI) have gone this way, they just vanished. For those of you you who have never seem them the POI are an accessory for the popular CB2000/3000/curve chastity cages, they come in three sizes (you get all three when you buy them) and they fit in in between the ring and the tube, they are simple but very very effective. Just imagine that whenever you get even the slightest thought in your head about sex or kink or anything that even remotely turns you on it feels like your cock is being cut off from the pain the points give you as they dig into your swelling penis.

For me these POI are a huge help for me staying locked up for longer, not only do they help keep the cage on they also keep my run-away-horniness under control. A big part of chastity for me is the idea of being trained to focus on more important things than my desires, I love being punished for not focusing on Lexy’s needs, being told over and over that what my tiny cock wants doesn’t matter any more and that the POI will remind me of that. The effect of them while serving Lexy I find quite strange in fact, for example when I am told to go down on her the blood rushes to my cock, I moan as the points dig in hard and as I work slowly down her body I need to consciously hold back the screams. But if I focus,  if I concentrate on exactly what my tongue is doing, think about how fast I am doing it, think about exactly what she likes, try to read her every moan and twitch to give her the best experience. If I do that and I am completely focused on pleasuring HER with my tongue and fingers etc. my erections subsides, as does the pain, . . . . as long as I stay focused lol

For further punishment the following trick can be used, thankfully I have not misbehaved enough to suffer it yet but I have spoken to Mistress’s who have done it:- The Mistress/Keyholder tells the Slave/Cuck that they are in for a treat, at the end of the week they are to be taken to a lap dancing bar, they will watch girls giving dances to their Mistress and will even get several dances of their own, by beautiful naked women. . . . . . . but if they misbehave just once in that week then they will be going with the first set of points in, misbehave twice the second set and misbehave three times and its the biggest points driving into their cock as they can’t control it from hardening.. . . . . . . . love the thought of dancers knowing why the sub is crying with pain and enjoying the experience of dominating someone just with their sexual allure.

So I am very glad to have my new set, it was an Ebay purchase as they are a little hard to find now as people are more concerned with the new CB6000, but if you want to find some there’s plenty still out there. Through experience and the fact that my cock is pretty small I can use the largest of the POI and if it wasn’t for a little pinching I could wear them 24/7, they are a wonderful and constant reminder of my submission and chastity so I would urge anyone who is into chastity and CBT to order some now! 🙂

So in conclusion:

If you are looking for an accessory to your CB3000/2000 to help prevent ‘pull-out’ and your keyholder wants you to be punished for every wayward thought running through your head then these are perfect. They are very intense to begin with so don’t expect to be able to stay in them for long first time but with practice you can work through them

Biggest disadvantage is that depending on which ring size you use there can be pinching, which in many ways is worse than the points themselves as it can be constant.

Mark out of ten:   8/10  (They are savage but work)